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So I think being yourself is important, and not getting caught up in the perfect-parenting crap. Talk about nerdy stuff and you'll attract other nerds eventually! I just have to say in the nicest trying to help way that your post didn't come across as totally open to other moms and maybe that's coming across a bit when you're out, totally unintentionally? We moved when my oldest was 3 months and now she's 3 yrs and I have really made an amazing group of mom friends and I feel so lucky for that, but a lot of them aren't really like me in every way and that's ok!
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I love them all! I am the very pregnant one a week before I popped at my friend's pregnancy announcement. I wouldn't even know how to make a friend right now to be honest. I have found my closest mom friends at non-kid things. I volunteer a bit other places, including church, and that is Stay at home mom looking for female friends I have found most friends. I am really looking for friends that don't revolve around kids and I find others are too.
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I'm not saying this is your situation at all but I'll tell you my experience. The first time I tried to join mom groups and make new friends I didn't feel that I was connecting with anyone.
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But even with them it's still nice to have some mom talk! People are trying to connect based on the one thing you know you have in common. So all those "mom" conversations are the small talk and pick up lines of the mom world. As an introvert, that stuff probably annoys the hell out of you. It's like, "skip the crap and tell me what's real. Just find a good playground, go often, and strike up conversations that have nothing to do with kids.
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